Dennis,
I guess the "chip on my shoulder" comes from all the little remarks I occasionally hear in/around the field. Comments like a purchasing representative at a community college doing her darnedest to describe the type of maps they want for their campus...only to have a few map designers make comments about how they butchered their project descriptions when it comes to the use of "proper" terminology. Or the occasional person who makes a comment about missing scales or North not being on the top of a design. Etc, etc.
I didn't come to the field of map design through cartography/geography...I came into it via graphic design and, in some ways, web design. Already I sometimes feel like I've got two strikes against me when it comes to the study or production of "serious" or "professional" cartography as a result (though that can often be self-imposed)...so I can get defensive and/or "easily agitated."

My biggest struggle being "in the business" though (as a human being) is to walk the fine line between:
A. Not becoming enraged or dismissive while listening to people who've had maybe ten minutes of classroom training in things such as typography, leading, kerning, contrast, positive/negative space, issues surrounding color-blindness, etc. using the term "design" in the same sentence as importing data and then using "brewers" to come up with their finished products, and...
B. Struggling to avoid a bit of an inferiority complex when it comes to people who have YEARS more educational training on all the history and subtle nuances of cartography than I have.
I've mentioned this quote before, but we're ALL experts and we're ALL idiots...it just depends upon what is being discussed at any given time.

I struggle personally/professionally with feeling like an idiot when it comes to "cartography" in its most-traditional form (at least during my lifetime)...even though I've been designing maps for nearly 30 years now (16 professionally). That's on me...and something I need to work on (and get over). That said, cartographers and map-makers do not "own" maps and wayfinding...they belong to the masses. We are merely stewards of the field.
Our job as people who create maps, IMHO, is to meet the masses where they live and serve them how they want and need to be served. In at least my own personal experience in the past 8-10+ years (since I started paying attention), there seems to be a GIANT disconnect between the philosophy of user-centered design and many of the works that are produced in our field (and where our industry is at least partially heading). So I squeak and squawk. When some of those same individuals get on their high-horses about what we all do while forgetting that many of them play things such as "graphic designer" and "web designer" (or plumber, or electrician, or mechanic, or, or, or)...well, that's just about more than I can stand without getting myself in a LOT of trouble in how I respond...lol.
Anyway, I'm padding my "most words posted at CartoTalk" wind-bag lead...so I'd better wrap this message up. Some of it is psychological and is something I am struggling to overcome as a professional in the field who lacks most of the formal educational background that many enter the field with (a person who also spent 18 unsuccessful years as a child trying to measure up to my father's impossibly high standards...no matter how good I was or how well I would do at school or work). Some of it though is simply frustration in knowing that most of us (myself included) think/act like we are a lot smarter than we actually probably are in understanding the way that the OTHER 50% of the planet thinks and wants related to maps, wayfinding and directions. Different <=> more or less "smart." Different is just different. Beautiful, interesting....and DEFINITELY not inferior or less-intelligent.